(Closed) Just discovered my husbands intimate past, and she’s our friend!

On Easter Sunday within my hubby’s sister’s home, we strolled down seriously to the bonfire and heard a mutual (feminine) buddy say to my better half “so does your lady learn about us? ” And my better half reacted “no, it absolutely was exactly just what, two decades ago? ” Therefore then I was seen by them plus it ended up being quiet. Their cousin had been here too, so its not too he had been alone with this specific girl during the time. Somehow, we was able to maybe perhaps not make a scene, until we had been 5 minutes from your home in which he asked me personally if I'd a very good time. We said i did so, but that i did son’t appreciate the discussion We heard in the bonfire. He stated “I don’t understand what to express” thus I said “how about you begin having an apology” in which he declined. He stated it wasn’t their fault, had no clue why she brought it. I was at fault for getting upset so he was on the defense, and now! Here’s my problem. We reside we my husbands city. Every one of “our” friends are actually “his” friends, but we’ve been married for pretty much decade therefore we have actually 2 young ones, therefore most of us do family members things now. This girl was to my house, our youngsters head to college together, and her and I also are both regarding the P.T.A. Board during the college. I’ve never WHEN thought or stressed about her, she’s married with 3 children, but i will be therefore furious now, that I became in. The dark on the past! We worry that every the other college mom’s understand, and that im just the dumb spouse who is out of her option to help. We have my very own company and I also also hired her for the term project that is short!